For Us
He shops, cleans, does laundry,
and pays bills “for us”.
Allowing me the quiet time
I need to study and think,
so I can write “for us”.
Subsequent to re-posting For Us on Cheryl♥Anne’s blog, I read Designed for Covenant Relationships, a recent Brigham Young University devotional talk which amplifies and clarifies the true principles behind For Us far better than did my poor words. The author introduces her topic with these significant words:
“We are deeply relational beings, designed for radical dependence and connection. Marriage and family life . . . are not just the means to an end. Familial love and belonging are the end.”
This brilliant article is a must-read. The link is listed at the end of this post.
It’s quite audacious of me to claim that this short, simple poem is Cheryl♥Anne’s greatest, but I know its full meaning, since I’m part of it. Notice that I said “part”, not “half”; Christ is by far the Major Contributor to this story. It is Cheryl♥Anne’s greatest poem because it embodies the entire purpose of mortal life and the Gospel plan. That purpose is unity in marriage - and a few ideas on how it is achieved.
The process started long, long ago when “intelligences” were united with a spirit body, thus becoming a united being. The process continued when the spirit was united with a physical body and placed in a situation where that man or woman was given the freedom to choose between good and evil, while being subject to the demands and temptations of mortal life. In other words, will the spirit control the body or not? Joy in life comes when spirit and body are united to choose the good, which can only happen when we allow Christ to be our leader.
Then, if we are to become like God, another “added upon” event must occur. A man and a woman must be sealed together eternally by God’s authority on earth. But, that sealing does not make a man and a woman united. It only gives them the opportunity to work at becoming such. Remember Christ’s words: “if ye are not one, ye are not mine”.
The greatest joy that can come to a man and a woman in mortality is to become one, to be united. That is the essential message of For Us, not the writing or the laundry, but the unity