How have we managed to be married for 48 years?

In just a few days, we will have been married for 48 years. That is kind of mind boggling! What is even more astounding is that we, two people from dysfunctional families, would still be happily married while some of the marriages we once were in awe of have now broken up. I can remember thinking how I wanted us to be like these couples someday. They seemed so together, and so in love, and I think they were-- then. Why aren't they together now? Why have they dropped out while two people like us are fast approaching our 48 wedding anniversary?

Many of these now divorced couples had supportive family, strong faith, good health and education, and were financially secure, then why did their marriages fail? They certainly had a lot more going for them than we did. 

Good Things I've Experienced During the Pandemic

Yes, I have really seen many good things during this time when we are experiencing a pandemic. For one thing, I've loved all the concern that younger people have shown to us "old folks". Neighbors have offered to get food from the grocery store for us and run errands. People have stepped way back after they knock on our door. Their concern has really touched me. Since the grocery stores have made a special early time for the "seniors" to shop, we haven't needed their help, yet, but it is good to know they are watching out for us, and that the stores are also trying to protect us.

Also, I've seen wealthy executives giving financial support to the many small businesses which are in danger of going under. Homes have not been foreclosed, and families have not been evicted. It seems like a kinder world. In some ways it reminds me of how people are at Christmastime, but without the bustling.

That's another good thing I've seen -- people are not rushing around!