How have we managed to be married for 48 years?

In just a few days, we will have been married for 48 years. That is kind of mind boggling! What is even more astounding is that we, two people from dysfunctional families, would still be happily married while some of the marriages we once were in awe of have now broken up. I can remember thinking how I wanted us to be like these couples someday. They seemed so together, and so in love, and I think they were-- then. Why aren't they together now? Why have they dropped out while two people like us are fast approaching our 48 wedding anniversary?

Many of these now divorced couples had supportive family, strong faith, good health and education, and were financially secure, then why did their marriages fail? They certainly had a lot more going for them than we did. 

What more does it take to make a good marriage? Everything. Yes, everything you both have: your time, your energy, and your talents. Your marriage has to come before your career, or even the children. I experienced a wonderful example of this when my husband willingly gave up his prospering retirement businesses to move 250 miles away, because he knew it would improve my health. How could I not love a man like that?

Basically, I think my husband and I are like the tortoise in the race with the hare. We didn't have a lot going for us, but we have been completely committed, have kept trying to communicate with and understand each other, have kept trying to trust that the other's intents are good, and have kept trying to help each other grow. 

Basically, you don't have to be swift, or a gifted communicator, or be some perfect person, to have a good marriage. All you both need to do is rely on God's help, make an effort to have faith in each other, and just keep trying.  The only losers in this race are those who quit.